Theres times where i dont know what id do without you & theres times where i just want to scream & yell & rip out my hair because of how much you stress me out. But i know the good times overcome the bad & the times we express our love for each other overpowers the countless arguments we’ve dealt with. You have the power to make me feel like im the only girl in the world, then one minute later feel like im just another pretty face. Through all the arguments, through all the heartbreaks.. thru all the “almost” tears.. through all your asshole times, thru all the times you say things to hurt me.. i still love you. No matter what you do, my feelings are too strong to change. AND its kinda hard sometimes, i mean yeah.. Sometimes i do wonder if this relationship is worth the longrun.. but it never gets to me to the point where i actually plan to make these wondering thoughts come true. N-E-V-E-R. Its crazy though, these feelings. Its unexplainable to have these strong feelings for a certain person, to know that THIS person is gunna be forever with you.. maybe not physically.. but mentally & in your heart. My Boyfriend.. I love him & i hate him at the same time. No matter how much of an asshole he is, at the end of the day, im still glad to call him MINE.

Logan-chandler; Love of my life.

“Anyone can give up; it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.”

Although you are truly happy with your significant other, occasionally there are times where you don’t feel as strong as you usually do. Maybe you’re just stressed, and the stress is getting to you. Maybe you question your relationship, and how you guys are doing. Maybe it’s just a bad day/week/month for you guys. Maybe something came up from the past, to your present. Maybe you guys just fought about something insignificant. Maybe it’s this, maybe it’s that.

A lot of us know what happens after the “honeymoon” phase. (I’m not stating that this happens to every couple) Both of you get to really know each other, and start seeing each other’s flaws. It isn’t that you guys don’t accept each other for how you guys are, but maybe you two aren’t used to dealing with each other just yet. Fights start to take place, and over time it just builds up… and it builds up to a point where it can be hard to deal with.

You might start to wonder if you should just give up and leave, or stay and deal with all the problems. Like the quote above, giving up is always the easy way out. It might seem fine in the beginning, because you’re so relieved that you don’t have to deal with the stress you had with your significant other. The problem with giving up is that you aren’t giving your relationship a chance to fully develop. Anybody can give up, but not everybody can stay strong and keep it together.

It takes two, when it comes to a relationship. Both of you just have to keep working at your relationship. Both of you have to keep in mind that there will always be bumps; once you get over these bumps, the path will start getting smoother. Never let your negatives outweigh your positives. Communication is key, as well as being willing to forgive, and working together to buff out your problems. Remember that the little things do matter, and simple things can really help.

With everything said, relationships are never easy, but they are absolutely worth the effort and struggle you put in. It will all be worth it in the end, when your relationships blossoms into something so incredible.

Even though, he has a different way of showing me his love and sometimes it can hurt.. I wouldn't trade it in for anything else, because to me he's worth the trouble & I have faith in him that even if things get hard our love is strong enough to withstand all the hard times.

Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. What is meant to be will end up good if what is not won’t. Relationships are worth fighting for but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don’t, you must move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Hopefully, people realize great things when they come around and don’t lose something real. Always fight, until you can’t anymore, and then be fought for.

Have you ever been inlove, inlove so bad .. you'd do anything just to get them to understand?

I know, you aren't that guy that I dreamed of. Not saying it in a bad way, but pretty much as straight forward as I can. I can say, you've given me more then I ever dreamed of . You might not be the guy who admits they are wrong. You'll never ever chase after a girl, regardless of what you did. You're never the first to say sorry, because you just feel like you did nothing wrong. You don't have all the sweet words to sweep me off my feet. You will speak your mind. You will make me work for you, because you feel that you're just in the same position as I am, we are no different and there are no expections. You ignore me, until I come running back to you. If I ever leave you, you have a way of showing you " dont give a fuck " . This probably, is no where close to what I wanted.Yes, it hurts that all of this happens , but you actually made me stronger. I'm looking at it through a different point of view, so I won't get hurt as much. I look at is as if you're teaching me how to deal & cope with hard times. You're toughen me up.. You might not notice how bad you affect me with the smallest things you do and say, but believe me I pay attention to every little thing you do. I learned that, even if someone loves you they will hurt you regardless. So if someone tells you " if you love someone , you don't hurt them " thats complete bullshit. Because, love hurts... like a bitch. I guess, it's really up to you to determine if they are worth the troubles or not.